Letter 8004: You left for distant parts and forgot all about friendship.

Ennodius of PaviaArator, Man|c. 496 AD|Ennodius of Pavia
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From: Ennodius, deacon and literary figure in Pavia
To: Arator [the future poet and subdeacon of Rome]
Date: ~496 AD
Context: A playful reproach to the young Arator for forgetting his city friends when retreating to the countryside — mixing real affection with literary gamesmanship.

Ennodius to Arator.

You left for distant parts and forgot all about friendship. Your devotion to me was apparently not allowed past the city walls. While you live in town, you guard your artful courtesies with considerable skill. But the moment you decide to head for the countryside, you drop the memory of your friends like heavy baggage.

So you have gone off to enjoy your rural pleasures, and here we remain, stuck among the miseries of urban life, written off. The affection you profess clearly had no roots — you shed it like a burden the moment the road opened up before you.

You may ask: why so quick with the complaint? Because not even a fair accusation should be delayed when friendship is at stake. I sent a letter ahead of me; you sent nothing back. If silence is your answer, I know where I stand. But I would rather hear otherwise. Farewell.

Modern English rendering for readability. See the 19th-century translation or original Latin/Greek for scholarly use.

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