Letter 1625

Isidore of PelusiumUnknown|isidore pelusium
From: Isidore of Pelusium, monk
To: Askopios
Date: ~410 AD
Context: Isidore entrusts certain friends to Askopios, relying on the fearlessness that genuine friendship makes possible.

Since genuine and sincere friendship is guaranteed precisely by the fact that it speaks without fear, it is on this basis that I myself am now entrusting to you the friends commended to me by other friends — and asking you to receive them without exception, not as strangers but as those already belonging to your circle.

This is what true friendship does: it expands. It does not hoard the people it has been given but passes them along with the same confidence. The man who receives a friend's friend as if they were their own has understood the most important thing about friendship — that it is not a closed door but an open one.

Modern English rendering for readability. See the 19th-century translation or original Latin/Greek for scholarly use.