Letter 13: An interesting letter, as throwing some light on Jerome's family relations. Castorina, his maternal aunt, had, for some reason, become estranged from him, and he now writes to her to effect a reconciliation. Whether he succeeded in doing so, we do not know.

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Letter 13: To Castorina, His Maternal Aunt (374 AD)

[An interesting letter for the light it throws on Jerome's family relationships. Castorina had become estranged from her nephew for unknown reasons, and Jerome writes to heal the rift. Whether he succeeded, we don't know.]

The apostle and evangelist John is absolutely right when he says in his first epistle that whoever hates his brother is a murderer [1 John 3:15]. Since murder often springs from hatred, the hater — even though he hasn't yet killed anyone — is already a murderer at heart. Why, you ask, do I start this way? Simply so that you and I may both let go of our old bitterness and clean out our hearts to make them a dwelling place for God.

"Be angry," David says, "and do not sin" — or as the apostle puts it more fully: "Do not let the sun go down on your anger" [Ephesians 4:26]. So what are we going to do on the day of judgment, when the sun has gone down on our anger not for one day but for many years? The Lord says in the Gospel: "If you bring your gift to the altar and there remember that your brother has something against you, leave your gift there before the altar and go. First be reconciled to your brother, and then come and offer your gift" [Matthew 5:23-24].

Woe to me, wretch that I am — and woe, I was about to say, to you as well. All this time we have either offered no gift at the altar, or have offered it while harboring anger without cause. How have we been able, in our daily prayers, to say "Forgive us our debts as we forgive our debtors" [Matthew 6:12] when our feelings contradict our words and our behavior makes a mockery of our prayers?

So I'm renewing the appeal I made a year ago in a previous letter: let the Lord's legacy of peace [John 14:27] truly be ours, and may my intentions and your feelings find favor in his sight. Soon we will both stand before his judgment seat, to receive the reward for restoring harmony or to pay the penalty for breaking it. If you prove unwilling — and I pray that won't be the case — to accept my overtures, at least I will be in the clear. For this letter, when it's read, will serve as my acquittal.

Modern English rendering for readability. See the 19th-century translation or original Latin/Greek for scholarly use.

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