Letter 10

UnknownLupus, close friend|c. 486 AD|ruricius limoges
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From: Ruricius, bishop of Limoges
To: Lupus, his close friend
Date: ~485 AD
Context: A playful letter to his dear friend Lupus, responding to classical comparisons between their friendship and the legendary pairs of Achilles-Patroclus, Hercules-Theseus, and Theseus-Pirithous — and insisting they should actually live up to those models rather than merely cite them.

Ruricius to his lord, his own heart's treasure, Lupus.

I received the letter from your great spirit, in which you graciously explain that the shortage of letter-carriers is why you sprinkle me less often with the dew of your eloquence. You also note your surprise that, when I have a ready supply of messengers and no shortage of polished words, I still hold back from writing to you more frequently. I have no doubt you said this with the irony that characterizes your witty eloquence — since you know perfectly well that you have couriers aplenty and I struggle with a poverty of both speech and the thin stream of a barren mind that, like a vein drying up in summer, sweats rather than flows.

You also added that, like Patroclus to Achilles, or Theseus to Hercules, or Pirithous to Theseus, you ought to be joined to me. In these stories and deeds of the ancients, we should understand not a comparison of persons but a comparison of love — so that, recalling the names of friends, we might follow their examples. Let us transfer their titles to ourselves and match their merits. Let us pluck from their deeds everything noble and honorable and usefully apply it to our own lives. Let us serve one another in sincere love, not painted flattery. Let us strive so that what the falsehood of poets invented about their friendships, the truth of our hearts may accomplish in ours — so that while we seem to imitate the ancients, we leave something worthy of imitation ourselves, and while praising the deeds of our elders, we earn the praise of posterity.

Modern English rendering for readability. See the 19th-century translation or original Latin/Greek for scholarly use.

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