Letter 7013: Good God, what a blend of rigor and grace the man displays, whether deliberating or persuading!

Sidonius ApollinarisSulpicius Severus|c. 467 AD|Sidonius Apollinaris
imperial politics

To Sulpicius.

Bishop Himerius, your son — known to me until now only slightly by sight but well enough by reputation (which was entirely favorable) — recently came to Lyon from Troyes. There, though I saw him only briefly and in haste, he restored to me the living image of the holy Bishop Lupus [Lupus of Troyes, the revered metropolitan], easily the foremost of the Gallic bishops, who was both the master of his calling and the author of his dignity.

Good God, what a blend of rigor and grace the man displays, whether deliberating or persuading! He overflows with the salt of good sense when consulted, with sweetness when giving counsel. His chief concern is for letters — especially sacred letters — in which the marrow of meaning occupies him more than the foam of words. His every action, fast or slow, centers on Christ. And what you would admire or praise: he does nothing idle, yet does nothing that is not peaceful.

He delights in fasting and accepts feasting — drawn to the first by the habit of the cross, yielding to the second by the grace of charity, maintaining both in perfect balance, since he suppresses gluttony whenever he decides to eat and suppresses vanity whenever he decides to abstain. He multiplies his own duties and avoids others'; and though he himself deserves to be honored in return, he is happier when the debt of courtesy is owed to him than when it is repaid.

At table, on the road, and in company he defers to his inferiors — so that the crowd of his superiors is all the more delighted to place itself below him. He manages conversation with the utmost tact: no stranger feels embarrassed, no intimate suffers injury, no credulous person stirs envy, no curious one meets rebuff, no suspicious person encounters deceit, no expert provokes complaint, no novice brings shame. He cultivates the dove's simplicity in the church and the serpent's shrewdness in the world — judged prudent by the good, cautious by the wicked, cunning by neither.

What more can I say? He has given you back to us entirely — all your moderation, your piety, your freedom, your modesty, and that most delicate tenderness of a refined mind, reproduced in a delightful likeness. So withdraw into seclusion as much as you like from now on — for in your son Himerius we already possess, in grandfather's name, father's face, and both men's wisdom, all that we could desire. Farewell.

Modern English rendering for readability. See the 19th-century translation or original Latin/Greek for scholarly use.

Related Letters