Letter 29

Quintus Aurelius SymmachusUnknown|c. 380 AD|symmachus

A father's praise of his children is usually honest, and yet somehow it loses force — people suspect it's motivated by affection rather than judgment. So I find myself uncertain what to say about the honorable Thalassius, your son-in-law.

If I praise his character lightly, I'll look envious. If I do him full justice, I'll seem like a flatterer. So I'll follow the model of Sallust's understated testimonial: "You have a man worthy of you and, through you, of a consular family" — a man whom fortune found already greater than the honors she bestowed, whose integrity of soul and moral seriousness had already won him distinction beyond what office could add. Farewell.

Modern English rendering for readability. See the 19th-century translation or original Latin/Greek for scholarly use.

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