Letter 9026: The question is now in your hands: whether I should continue to maintain my regular habit of writing to you, or...

Quintus Aurelius SymmachusUnknown|c. 379 AD|Quintus Aurelius Symmachus
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The question is now in your hands: whether I should continue to maintain my regular habit of writing to you, or whether your reserve should teach me to be equally sparing. I have always believed that friendship thrives on the frequency of exchange, not on the rarity of carefully polished masterpieces.

A simple greeting, honestly meant, outweighs the most elaborate silence. So I ask you to meet me halfway: if my letters come too often, tell me — but do not punish my diligence with your own neglect. The only correspondence that dishonors friendship is the kind that never arrives. Farewell.

Modern English rendering for readability. See the 19th-century translation or original Latin/Greek for scholarly use.

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